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and even though my life not perfect, far from perfect in the
eyes of man; farerer in the eyes of God;
it seems that somehow God will perfect it,
for until now He has made it towards aforementioned,
and will continually do so.

May be i was bullied too much that I think bullying people are ok.

>>2188
is, not are. But peduli amat sama is are, ga guna pembedaannya

Hmm melet.us abis mati karena phpnya diapgred dari 5 ke 7.
Gada lagi `split` dan `ereg` dan `eregi` dan `mysql_*`.
Dibetulkan dengan cepat, semoga ga ada eror2.

Kayanya orang2 petugas di gereja ngga dibayar,
jadi mereka (dan saya) memuaskan diri tidak bisa dengan uang,
tapi dengan kekuasaan, rasa dihormati, pangkat dan jabatan.
Orang yang di atas sangat ga suka dengan orang2 yang di bawah
yang berpendapat lain, bukan karena pendapatnya bagus atau tidak,
tapi karena orang di atas ga mau mengakui orang di bawah bisa
lebih baik. Orang paling atas mencari orang atas yang pintar menyenangkan
mereka, karena itulah penghargaan mereka.

Tentu saja kalau kutulis ini di sini, ini sebuah anekdot,
cerita segelintir kasus, yang harus menjadi kewaspadaan kita.

When you say thanks to somebody, you’re expressing gratitude. You’re telling the person that you really appreciate what he/she did for you. If somebody has given you something without wanting anything in return (and even if they did want something in return, it never hurts to be polite) you really should be grateful. The best way to mess this up is to say “thx” or “10x” or “ty” or something like that. I can’t believe that somebody is really grateful when he doesn’t even have time to type “thanks” but instead abbreviates it to “thx” or something to save himself from typing–get this–three extra letters.

Another thing is saying “sorry.” It’s often said that “sorry” is the most important and at the same time the most difficult word to say. If somebody doesn’t bother to type the whole word “sorry” but instead uses “sry” or “soz” etc, I can’t really believe that he’s truly sorry. It’s more like “Okay, whatever, I’ll just settle this huge mistake I’ve made by saying ‘sry.’”

And the third word, “please,” shouldn’t be abbreviated either. It’s a bit like “thanks” in advance, it means approximately “I’ll appreciate if you help me with my problem here.” It’ll send out a message saying that you’re a nice enough person and will hopefully increase your chances of getting help. Don’t mess this great opportunity up by using “plz” or “pls” or something similar.

I don’t really mind people abbreviating other words although abbreviating just to save the trouble of typing two letters is dumb. I guess abbreviating words like that is fine when you’re talking with people you know really well, and know they won’t mind, but not on some support IRC channel or forum where people donate their time to the community to help others for free. Just don’t abbreviate “thanks,” “sorry” and “please” because they’re meant to express “strong” things, gratitude and regret.

Thank you for reading this.

Matti “Lumpio-“ Virkkunen

Kalo ku akan bertemu seseorang dan ku merasa
akan menimbulkan emosi yang sulit dikontrol
atau ga begitu kenal, sering kali ku berdoa

Tuhan tolonglah aku agar bisa menjadi berkat bagi mereka.

Kemudian ku tersadar bahwa belum tentu
aku jadi berkat, maka direvisi

Tuhan tolonglah aku agar menjadi saluran berkat-Mu
bagi mereka, sebab aku tau Engkau memberkati
mereka, hanya jadikanlah aku salah satu salurannya.

Setelah bertahun-tahun ga merasakannya, skarang
ku merasakan lagi, efek jelek dari berteman dengan orang2 yang ga seumur.

Cepat atau lambat, orang2 yang ga seumur denganku
itu akan berkumpul
dengan yang seumur, karena mengasingkan satu di
antara mereka itu banyak kerugiannya bagi mereka; tapi
mengasingkan yuku bisa dengan mudah dilakukan tanpa
ada repercussion dari teman2 seumur mereka.